Staying motivated in writing – when it seems impossible

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I have a confession to make: I don’t want to work on my book. It’s not that I don’t want to write – I love writing. It’s my absolute passion and calling. And it’s not that I don’t like my book idea and my current work in progress. But, I’m in the dreaded I-could-write-and-it’s-not-writer’s-block-but-I-can’t-bring-myself-to-do-anything.

So what do you do when you hit this wall? I’m still trying to work it out. But, hopefully, the first step to moving past it is recognizing it!

Here are some steps I’m taking to get back into the groove.

  1. Recognize your feelings. Acknowledge that you’re in a slump, that it’s going to be okay, and that you will move past it.
  2. Don’t beat yourself up. While writing every day would be fantastic, unfortunately it’s not always realistic. Sometimes, it just doesn’t flow. It’s okay.
  3. Try to pinpoint why it’s happening. Are you struggling with a plot point? Querying another project and feeling discouraged? Or, maybe you’re just dealing with a lot of other stuff in your life. Don’t fret about it – prioritize and find where you can make time to write. If you’re struggling with the book itself, take some time away to brainstorm.
  4. Start small. Ease yourself back into your WIP. For me, I always strive to hit 1,000 words per session. Sometimes, I think this very goal gets in my own way. If you inch back into your story – even if it’s only 100 words – it’ll help get you back in the swing of things. Plus, you’ll be writing again!
  5. Understand that it happens to everyone. Remembering that you aren’t alone, and that everyone feels unmotivated and discouraged at times, can really help you get past your dry spell.

I’ll admit – I find this feeling even more sinking than writer’s block. So while I did come up with the above, I also asked my Twitter followers for their advice. Here’s what some of them said:

Sometimes I’ll work on another WIP, or a side project related to the WIP, like a scene that helps me understand a character or is just for fun even if I have no intention of including it in the WIP. – @ashleydhansen12

What I do is sometimes I just need to force myself to write, so I’ll write a couple sentences and see how I feel or I reread the last chapter to get back into it. Or, I go to the last spot I enjoyed writing and work from there. – @ImBrittanyEvans

I change it up. Write somewhere new, like a lunch spot. Write longhand. Brainstorm with a friend even if they don’t have a clue about your book. Just explaining stuff kick-starts the ole brain. – @AbbeyKirberger

But the most consistent piece of advice I received? Don’t give up, and keep working on your book anyway.

I would have to agree.

Do you have go-to practices to spark your motivation? Drop them in the comments!

XO,
Elizabeth

WHAT I READ THIS MONTH: One of Us is Lying

unnamedHi everyone! Wow, it’s been an absolutely insane month. I’ll admit I haven’t been making writing a top priority, but I’m chalking it up to a lot of personal stuff that went on the past few weeks. However, I’ve still kept up my reading! February’s book is ONE OF US IS LYING by Karen M. McManus, and I have to say, I LOVED IT. Before I get into specifics, here’s the official overview from McManus’ website:

Pay close attention and you might solve this:

On Monday afternoon, five students at Bayview High walk into detention:
 

  • Bronwyn, the brain, is Yale-bound and never breaks a rule

  • Addy, the beauty, is the picture-perfect homecoming princess

  • Nate, the criminal, is already on probation for dealing

  • Cooper, the athlete, is the all-star baseball pitcher

  • And Simon, the outcast, is the creator of Bayview High’s
    notorious gossip app

 
Only, Simon never makes it out of that classroom alive. And according to investigators, his death wasn’t an accident. He died on a Monday. But that Tuesday, he’d planned to post juicy reveals about all four of his high-profile classmates. Now, all four of them are suspects in his murder. Are they guilty? Or are they the perfect patsies for a killer who’s still on the loose?
 
They all have a motive. They all have something to hide. They all have a history with Simon. And one of them is definitely lying.

Whoa. Now, I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not a huge fan of young adult fiction. Not saying I don’t like it – it’s just usually not my first choice. But, a lot of people who know me know that I love Gossip Girl, so naturally this premise clicked with me from the start and I had to pick it up. Many people have described it as GG or Pretty Little Liars meets The Breakfast Club, which in and of itself makes it a must-read. So, grab your backpack and cell phone – we’re going back to school.

First, let’s talk about how seamlessly McManus executes the multiple point-of-view writing. We get glances into the minds of the four remaining students – Bronwyn, Cooper, Addy and Nate – but it never feels confusing. This is a super difficult thing to pull off, but McManus does it. She writes them differently enough so that you can tell which character’s mind you’re in, but not too much so that it become distracting from the plot. Well done. I enjoyed getting to view the story unfold through the different perspectives.

I also loved her voice. Her writing style was rich in detail, but also kept the story moving and didn’t ever feel stifling or self-indulgent. Like I’ve mentioned before, I’m a plot girl, so I like when writers keep things moving with a strong premise. I also love mystery and thrillers, and I’ll admit, even with my lofty consumption of thrillers and determination to solve it for myself, I didn’t see this ending coming. Without giving too much away, it was an interesting concept, and the motivation behind the killer was timely in a dark and painfully real way.

In addition to an unforeseen ending, we also learn deep secrets about the four main characters themselves. As each one unfolds, we realize the murderer could be any of them – and that’s what makes it so gripping. I kept going back and forth on who could’ve done it – but when I ultimately learned the truth, and why the killer did it, I was pretty shocked.

All in all, if you love mystery, suspense, dark secrets and high school drama, pick up ONE OF US IS LYING. You won’t regret it.

Buy the book here:

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Know a book that I should read next? Let me know in the comments!

 

WHAT I READ THIS MONTH: THE LIGHT BETWEEN WORLDS

6A03B323-E63B-49F0-9E3A-3BEA2B6B15B1Hi guys! Welcome to the first installment of my new book review series, WHAT I READ THIS MONTH. I plan to publish these monthly, and I’m so thrilled that the first book I’m reviewing is THE LIGHT BETWEEN WORLDS by Laura E. Weymouth. This young adult fantasy just recently hit shelves in October and is sure to sweep you away and make you feel all the feelings this winter. I suggest cozying up with some tea by the fire (I live in Florida, so I pretended) and diving into this story. Let’s get into it.

From Weymouth’s website, here’s an overview:

Five years ago, Evelyn and Philippa Hapwell cowered from air strikes in a London bomb shelter. But that night took a turn when the sisters were transported to another realm called the Woodlands. In a forest kingdom populated by creatures out of myth and legend, they found temporary refuge.

When Ev and Phil finally returned to London, nothing had changed at all—nothing, except themselves.

Now, Evelyn spends her days sneaking into the woods outside her boarding school, wishing for the Woodlands. Overcome with longing, she is desperate to return no matter what it takes.

Philippa, on the other hand, is determined to find a place in this world. She shields herself behind a flawless exterior and countless friends, and moves to America to escape the memory of what was.

But when Evelyn goes missing, Philippa must confront the depth of her sister’s despair and the painful truths they’ve been running from. As the weeks unfold, Philippa wonders if Ev truly did find a way home, or if the weight of their worlds pulled her under.

This story has all the elements I absolutely love and appreciate. It centers on family and the very real, agonizing feeling of being caught between two places. Something I particularly loved about this book was that it didn’t dwell too much on world-building or keeping the reader preoccupied with the details of the otherworldly creatures of the Woodlands or magic or anything you typically think of when you think portal fantasy.  The exterior, fantastical setting is great and grand – but this book focused on the people.

And that’s what sets it apart.

Weymouth expertly seesaws between the present in the known world and the past in the Woodlands. This very premise struck me as something so original –  we often read stories of people who are magically transported to another world and must complete some sort of high-stakes quest (guilty – that’s what my first book is, basically). We rarely hear about how these adventurers are when they come home, and if they’re okay. And if you’re going by the Hapwells, they’ve very much not okay.

What struck to the core was Evelyn Hapwell, the true light between worlds. She knew beyond doubt where she truly belonged, and that was her curse. So many people, be it in careers or relationships, can feel in their bones what they should do, but may not be willing to take the risk. There’s the safe way that might, maybe make you happy, and there’s the hard way that will require tough choices but just might pay off. Evelyn knew what her decision had to be.

Evelyn is not always likable. She’s stubborn, she wanders, and she refuses to hear sensible sentiments. But, she has hope. For someone who feels so caged, so entrapped by the dark, menacing real world, she makes her own light and clings to the belief that she’ll someday return to the Woodlands.

Besides having a hauntingly beautiful story and complex characters, Weymouth’s writing is breathtaking and gorgeous. She doesn’t overwhelm you with flowery language or exhausting, long chapters. Instead, she brilliantly balances vivid description with sharp, concise prose. Be warned: you’ll leave a piece of your heart within the pages.

All in all, I highly recommend you give this book a read. Content warnings can be found here.

And stay tuned for January’s book review! Hint: Psych. Thriller.

Buy THE LIGHT BETWEEN WORLDS here:

Amazon
Barnes & Noble
Books-A-Million
IndieBound