Staying motivated in writing – when it seems impossible

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I have a confession to make: I don’t want to work on my book. It’s not that I don’t want to write – I love writing. It’s my absolute passion and calling. And it’s not that I don’t like my book idea and my current work in progress. But, I’m in the dreaded I-could-write-and-it’s-not-writer’s-block-but-I-can’t-bring-myself-to-do-anything.

So what do you do when you hit this wall? I’m still trying to work it out. But, hopefully, the first step to moving past it is recognizing it!

Here are some steps I’m taking to get back into the groove.

  1. Recognize your feelings. Acknowledge that you’re in a slump, that it’s going to be okay, and that you will move past it.
  2. Don’t beat yourself up. While writing every day would be fantastic, unfortunately it’s not always realistic. Sometimes, it just doesn’t flow. It’s okay.
  3. Try to pinpoint why it’s happening. Are you struggling with a plot point? Querying another project and feeling discouraged? Or, maybe you’re just dealing with a lot of other stuff in your life. Don’t fret about it – prioritize and find where you can make time to write. If you’re struggling with the book itself, take some time away to brainstorm.
  4. Start small. Ease yourself back into your WIP. For me, I always strive to hit 1,000 words per session. Sometimes, I think this very goal gets in my own way. If you inch back into your story – even if it’s only 100 words – it’ll help get you back in the swing of things. Plus, you’ll be writing again!
  5. Understand that it happens to everyone. Remembering that you aren’t alone, and that everyone feels unmotivated and discouraged at times, can really help you get past your dry spell.

I’ll admit – I find this feeling even more sinking than writer’s block. So while I did come up with the above, I also asked my Twitter followers for their advice. Here’s what some of them said:

Sometimes I’ll work on another WIP, or a side project related to the WIP, like a scene that helps me understand a character or is just for fun even if I have no intention of including it in the WIP. – @ashleydhansen12

What I do is sometimes I just need to force myself to write, so I’ll write a couple sentences and see how I feel or I reread the last chapter to get back into it. Or, I go to the last spot I enjoyed writing and work from there. – @ImBrittanyEvans

I change it up. Write somewhere new, like a lunch spot. Write longhand. Brainstorm with a friend even if they don’t have a clue about your book. Just explaining stuff kick-starts the ole brain. – @AbbeyKirberger

But the most consistent piece of advice I received? Don’t give up, and keep working on your book anyway.

I would have to agree.

Do you have go-to practices to spark your motivation? Drop them in the comments!

XO,
Elizabeth

WHAT I READ THIS MONTH: One of Us is Lying

unnamedHi everyone! Wow, it’s been an absolutely insane month. I’ll admit I haven’t been making writing a top priority, but I’m chalking it up to a lot of personal stuff that went on the past few weeks. However, I’ve still kept up my reading! February’s book is ONE OF US IS LYING by Karen M. McManus, and I have to say, I LOVED IT. Before I get into specifics, here’s the official overview from McManus’ website:

Pay close attention and you might solve this:

On Monday afternoon, five students at Bayview High walk into detention:
 

  • Bronwyn, the brain, is Yale-bound and never breaks a rule

  • Addy, the beauty, is the picture-perfect homecoming princess

  • Nate, the criminal, is already on probation for dealing

  • Cooper, the athlete, is the all-star baseball pitcher

  • And Simon, the outcast, is the creator of Bayview High’s
    notorious gossip app

 
Only, Simon never makes it out of that classroom alive. And according to investigators, his death wasn’t an accident. He died on a Monday. But that Tuesday, he’d planned to post juicy reveals about all four of his high-profile classmates. Now, all four of them are suspects in his murder. Are they guilty? Or are they the perfect patsies for a killer who’s still on the loose?
 
They all have a motive. They all have something to hide. They all have a history with Simon. And one of them is definitely lying.

Whoa. Now, I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not a huge fan of young adult fiction. Not saying I don’t like it – it’s just usually not my first choice. But, a lot of people who know me know that I love Gossip Girl, so naturally this premise clicked with me from the start and I had to pick it up. Many people have described it as GG or Pretty Little Liars meets The Breakfast Club, which in and of itself makes it a must-read. So, grab your backpack and cell phone – we’re going back to school.

First, let’s talk about how seamlessly McManus executes the multiple point-of-view writing. We get glances into the minds of the four remaining students – Bronwyn, Cooper, Addy and Nate – but it never feels confusing. This is a super difficult thing to pull off, but McManus does it. She writes them differently enough so that you can tell which character’s mind you’re in, but not too much so that it become distracting from the plot. Well done. I enjoyed getting to view the story unfold through the different perspectives.

I also loved her voice. Her writing style was rich in detail, but also kept the story moving and didn’t ever feel stifling or self-indulgent. Like I’ve mentioned before, I’m a plot girl, so I like when writers keep things moving with a strong premise. I also love mystery and thrillers, and I’ll admit, even with my lofty consumption of thrillers and determination to solve it for myself, I didn’t see this ending coming. Without giving too much away, it was an interesting concept, and the motivation behind the killer was timely in a dark and painfully real way.

In addition to an unforeseen ending, we also learn deep secrets about the four main characters themselves. As each one unfolds, we realize the murderer could be any of them – and that’s what makes it so gripping. I kept going back and forth on who could’ve done it – but when I ultimately learned the truth, and why the killer did it, I was pretty shocked.

All in all, if you love mystery, suspense, dark secrets and high school drama, pick up ONE OF US IS LYING. You won’t regret it.

Buy the book here:

Amazon
Barnes & Noble
Indie Bound

Know a book that I should read next? Let me know in the comments!

 

Looking back & ahead: New Year’s resolutions

 

I love the idea of a fresh start. The notion of reinvention and rebirth is fascinating and inspiring, and it’s something I think about often. That’s one of the reasons I love this time of year. Like most people, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting as the year draws to a close. Things I accomplished, things I learned, things I’m proud of, and things I could do better in the new year.

Here, I want to explore some of those and share what I’m aspiring to do in 2019.

2018 in review

What I’m proud of…

  • Finished writing my first book
  • Had my manuscript requested by agents
  • Launched my blog (woohoo!)
  • Transitioned my Instagram to a business account, focusing on Disney content
  • Completely revamped my mindset
  • Found joy in simple things
  • Started writing my second book

Lessons…

  • Happiness starts with the internal – not external. It’s on you.
  • Don’t let negative opinions dim your shine.
  • It’s scary to put yourself out there, but it’s so worth it.
  • Toxicity and negativity have no place here anymore.

Looking to 2019 

Goals…

  • Maintain a healthier lifestyle
  • Finish and revise my second book
  • Read two books a month
  • Buy more pink clothes
  • Keep a positive mindset

In short, my rule for 2019 can be summed up in three words: Good. Vibes. Only. As great as those external resolutions are (being healthy, financial responsibility, etc.), for me, the most important goals have to do with cultivating a good attitude. It’s not always easy, but it is always worth it. For me, it’s been life-changing.

And lastly, I want to say Happy New Year to those who follow and read my blog. I really appreciate it, and I look forward to awesome things coming in 2019!

Have your own goals and resolutions for the new year? Drop them in the comments below!

Happy New Year!

Elizabeth